{"id":2392,"date":"2013-08-09T19:46:32","date_gmt":"2013-08-09T19:46:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/?p=2392"},"modified":"2013-08-09T19:46:32","modified_gmt":"2013-08-09T19:46:32","slug":"bad-kissing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/?p=2392","title":{"rendered":"Bad Kissing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/media.jinni.com\/movie\/swept-away\/swept-away-1.jpeg\" width=\"300\" height=\"222\" \/>Sometimes people approach me to score a film and explain how to write the music. Weird when they do that; probably they never before worked with a composer. It is as though they assume that is what directors do with composers. But I feel like I&#8217;m on a date with someone who has never been kissed. I can sense they&#8217;re nervous about everything I do. No matter what &#8211; the kiss is doomed. Might be better to not go on that date but those are also moments I&#8217;m sometimes proud of. Dealing with dumb situations, gracefully. Hopefully.<\/p>\n<p>Those experiences taught me if someone has expertise in something I want to do with them, then I should try to give them room to show their talent and their instincts because that&#8217;s how I would like to be treated. Like a video director, or a guest soloist or a luthier. If it doesn&#8217;t work then we&#8217;ll try to pick up the pieces but that&#8217;s better solved later than trying to control their contribution before we start.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s my opinion you didn&#8217;t ask for thank you very much. And I&#8217;m not looking at you Tony.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes people approach me to score a film and explain how to write the music. Weird when they do that; probably they never before worked with a composer. It is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/?p=2392\" class=\"more-link\">[&hellip;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"Layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[253,107],"tags":[369,373,371,370,372],"class_list":["entry","author-rockbob","post-2392","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-composing","category-films","tag-filmmaking-and-bob-wiseman","tag-how-to-collaborate-on-music-for-film","tag-lina-wertmuller-and-bob-wiseman","tag-swept-away-and-bob-wiseman","tag-working-with-a-composer"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2392","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2392"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2392\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2392"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2392"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2392"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}