{"id":6668,"date":"2021-08-03T18:45:53","date_gmt":"2021-08-03T18:45:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/?p=6668"},"modified":"2021-08-03T18:45:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-03T18:45:54","slug":"ralph-and-ben","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/?p=6668","title":{"rendered":"ralph and ben"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>ralph: I make the same mistakes and then I think about the mistakes all the time and how unlikely I am to get it together. I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m ever going to learn this song right.<br>ben: Same problem here. I think about what I can&#8217;t get right all the time.<br>ralph: I don&#8217;t replay those parts I can do, I only rethink the parts I screwed up.<br>ben: Why do we do that?<br>ralph: Because the parts you can already do don&#8217;t stress you out, so what you can&#8217;t do you worry about.<br>ben: I think it goes deeper.<br>ralph: What could be deeper?<br>ben: Maybe the mind desires a state of displeasure over a state of satisfaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ralph: Why? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ben: I&#8217;m not thinking about &#8220;the why&#8221;, just the facts ma&#8217;am. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>ralph: I make the same mistakes and then I think about the mistakes all the time and how unlikely I am to get it together. I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/?p=6668\" class=\"more-link\">[&hellip;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"Layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["entry","author-rockbob","post-6668","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6668","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6668"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6668\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6668"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6668"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6668"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}