{"id":6850,"date":"2021-11-29T02:32:00","date_gmt":"2021-11-29T02:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/?p=6850"},"modified":"2021-12-02T19:48:52","modified_gmt":"2021-12-02T19:48:52","slug":"to-say-or-not-to-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/?p=6850","title":{"rendered":"to say or not to say"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There is a student whose songs I don&#8217;t tend to like, and she played another one the other day. Once again, I wasn&#8217;t sure what to say. I don&#8217;t want to bullshit her and smile &#8220;what you are doing is great&#8221; when I don&#8217;t really think so. Her musicality is very good, better than many others but for me her lyrics don&#8217;t make sense, they sound like she&#8217;s &#8220;trying&#8221; to make a pop song instead of singing something that sounds authentic, that sounds like it has to do with her real experience. A music teacher did me a great favour years ago when I went for a lesson, and stopped me a few minutes after I started playing and told me I didn&#8217;t know what I was doing. I was relieved. I totally didn&#8217;t know what I was doing but had no idea how to admit that to anyone. I have no idea what she&#8217;s talking about in her lyrics and I would like to tell her, not to insult her but to pose the question. It could be a catalyst for a different kind of introspection &#8230;or it could offend her and spark confirmation of other insecurities, and a prescription for anti-panic attack medication, who knows? She often asks my opinion about this artist or that artist, so I sense she wants to know what I think of her work. Before I knew it, two other students complimented her lyrics and then the class was over and they were all out the door.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is a student whose songs I don&#8217;t tend to like, and she played another one the other day. Once again, I wasn&#8217;t sure what to say. I don&#8217;t want <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/?p=6850\" class=\"more-link\">[&hellip;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"Layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["entry","author-rockbob","post-6850","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6850","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6850"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6850\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6850"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6850"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bobwiseman.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6850"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}